I think Emily summed it all up the best Saturday night as we all stood around the campfire. "I guess I'll be the one to get a little sappy," she said, "even though I'm being anti-social right now, smoking over here away from you all." We all laughed. She continued with, "...But I'm really glad we did this." Wendy, Angie, Tauna, Staci and I, on the other side of the fire, chimed in in agreement.
"And you know how sometimes when you reunite with someone after a long time and it's weird and awkward and definitely not the same?" Emily continued. "Well, that hasn't happened here. I was genuinely interested in hearing what each of you are up to. I haven't just been asking these questions to be nice."
And again we agreed that we could almost walk back into our old apartment on Monday as though no time had passed. Last weekend was the first organized "reunion" we've had in three years, if you don't count Wendy's wedding last fall. We made a vow to not let three more years pass before we do this again.
What originally started as a plan to go visit Bill Huff in Boston, the trip was scaled down to camping in Clear Lake, Iowa. Much more affordable, much less time away from work, etc. Yes, we're getting old and responsibilities are increasing. But the simplicity of the weekend was its charm. It was good to be together on our little camp site, then on our little pontoon boat, and then huddled around the cooler... er, I mean, the fire, swapping stories and playing Apples to Apples. Our conversation carried the weight of three years' time: retirement plans, mortgages for some, weddings for others, student loans, politics, religion. There wasn't as much drinking as there would've been three years ago, and we all went to bed much earlier.
Yet the core of our friendship was still there, the history of two + years of cohabitation on a college campus. We are all really different, yet the bond of that B5 apartment has somehow managed to last in a way that many other relationships and experiences haven't. And it's odd, really, because we are so different. Staci was friends with me who was friends with Christina and Angie who were friends with Wendy who was friends with Emily and Tauna. And out of that, our quirky little entity, for lack of a better word, was born.
I wish I had some outrageous story from the weekend to share, but it was relatively drama-free: simple, relaxing, and, best of all, familiar.
Tauna and I aren't the best of swimmers.
Me and Angie.
Emily, Angie, Wendy, me, and Staci Mae in the (not very)Clear Lake.